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We process things by talking
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Scroll down to see the upcoming events I don't want you to miss. Hey there! It's Tuesday and a great day to start over. Yesterday, while walking with a new friend, I discovered something: We, humans, process things by talking. Suppressing your expression leads to a buildup of unprocessed experiences. Hoarding, for example. When someone starts hoarding it’s not a problem, but… After 3 year of hoarding you can see the difference in their energy. Anything that you stuff down becomes an emotional, mental or energetic weight you carry. How are you stuffing things down? → Secrets → Judgements → Shame → Fears → Longings & Desires → Assumptions → Revenge → Procrastination Without a regular space to process stuff… to talk… the weight keeps accumulating. But, it’s not just talking, as in neurotic talking from your head to avoid feeling. This talking is about the connection between ❤️ your heart, 🗣️ your voice and 🧠 your mind. Humans capacity of carrying weight is limited. As opposed to the way we’re taught to live, which assumes that we have infinite resources, accumulate and accumulate not caring for the consequences. This eventually leads to emotional, intellectual, physical or energetic overweight. Talking is the way we humans process our life experiences. Not talking is like not having a poop. 💩 Do you get how essential this is to our biology? Some of us might have SO MUCH to talk about that it might take us years and years of talking and processing everything that we’ve stuffed down. In patriarchal modern culture, you are sent to the experts (the psychiatrist, the therapist, etc), who you give money to in exchange for them listening and being a bouncing board for you. In regenerative cultures contexted in Radical Responsibility (i.e.: Archiarchy), something else is possible… → You organize a 3-Cell for being on each other’s team to process all the unprocessed stuff → You join a healing team to be around other who are also on a healing journey → You plan an intensive healing journey of processing spaces 3 times a week → You go to training and practice spaces like Rage Club for learning to speak using your feelings → You hold space for others to process their unprocessed stuff by completing their communication → The village is in a constant breathing flux of processing, celebrating and grieving, specially during impactful events like birth and dead → You deliver a worktalk to share with the world the gold from what you have processed, this is the kind of treasure that gets bigger the more you share it Ready to shift? Let’s talk and play! Love, Jorge Upcoming EventsGetting to the edge — Online WorktalkI’m teaming up with Devin Gleeson to deliver a worktalk on edgeworking, Gameworld building and discovering your intrinsic, unmeasurable, deliverable, non-material value. What happens when you shift from “trying to get there” to “being here”? You get to your edge. What happens when you get to your edge with others? Join this worktalk to explore this precious territory in deep teamship with other edgeworkers. When: Monday, April 21st, 10 to 11:30am PDT --- Face Your Fear — Online WorktalkAre you scared to feel scared? Modern culture thoughtware has a lot of ideas and beliefs about fear. Many people unconsciously take on these beliefs without examining them because “they sound right”. → Love above fear → Fear vs. Love → Fear is bad, evil, useless, etc These beliefs block at the mental level the natural and vital resource of consciously feeling your fear, and create havoc, disconnect and alienation in your human experience. Join this space to discover and deepen EXPERIENTIALLY your relationship with fear. When: Thursday April 24th, 11am to 12:30pm PDT --- Expand The Box — Vancouver, CanadaExpand The Box is NOT for everyone. Probably, there are 3-6 people who will read this that this ETB is for. If the ETB is for you, I don’t want you to miss it! It’s an extraordinary space that opens the potential for regenerative Villaging, Familying, Teamworking and creating the life you know is possible. When: Fri, May 30th to Tue, June 3rd 2025 |
Jorge Pedret
I'm a Gameworld Builder who resiliently explores the edges of culture, parenting, relationships, and personal development. Receive my news, updates and events directly in your inbox.
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